PLANNING A SPRING BREAK THAT DOESNâT BREAK YOU
Too often we hear the lament, âI need a vacation from my vacation.â And if thatâs true at any time of year, itâs certainly true at spring break. But given a little planning and an intentional shift in attitude, your vacation can be a break no matter where you go or what you do. Here are three goals you can focus on to take a break that doesnât break you:Relish family timeWith todayâs fast-paced lifestyles, what often gets shortchanged is focused family time. Enter spring break as a great opportunity to reconnectâwhether at home or away. But beware: itâs easy to get sucked into believing we should be doing activities or seeing sights and forget our companions. Itâs important to remember that children donât need fantastic experiences or exciting locations to make memories. What theyâll remember is the time as a family.âI truly donât think you need to go to Africa, Europe or the Caribbean to make memories with your kids. To them, a vacation is about quality time with mom and dadâit doesn't matter where you are,â says Kara Williams, co-owner of TheVacationGals.com.As you plan your familyâs spring break vacation this year, consider what you want family time to look like. Then plan accordingly. If family time means lounging around together, or playing lots of board games, or having long conversations around the dinner table, structure your time and activities as much as you can to make those pursuits possible.And donât forget: family time can begin before the vacation itself. Kelly Merritt, author of The Everything Family Guide to Budget Travel, explains, âTravel involves research and planning, which families can do together. Vacation planning brings the family together and fosters anticipation.â Pace yourselfTaking kids on a whirlwind tour of a theme park destination or other tourist spot may be tempting. After all, you want to get the best value for your dollar. But in reality, quality over quantity may bring you the most benefits long-term. Decide ahead of time whether it will be worth the energy and possible frayed nerves to try to see everything. And if high cost is pushing you to over schedule, consider whether the timing is right.âIt is never a good idea to go over budget or stretch your finances for the sake of travel. Part of the reason we travel is to free ourselves of the bondage of the daily grind we all face,â notes Merritt. âBut if traveling is going to result in more stress than staying home, itâs best to sock away your savings until you can go and actually enjoy the trip.â Rather than take a long vacation extending from the day the kids get out of school (or prior) until the night before school resumes, you may want to reserve time for a reentry period. Instead, save the fancier vacation for a longer time frame, such as summer. âA week sounds like a long time,â says Kimm Pilditch, mother of three. âBut itâs not really that much. Donât make it overwhelming. Some of the funnest times weâve had are times when weâve not completely scheduled and had some down time.âBridget Cahill, mom to three girls, agrees. She plans shorter trips, allowing a day or two at home for getting back on routine. âKeep it simple,â she suggests. âShorten the trip a little. All you need is four or five days to get away.âUnplug and enjoy your surroundingsFor time off to be a break, there should be a shift from the ordinary. This is most easily done when vacationing away from home (and a primary reason many people choose to travel). But in our digitally connected age, taking a break requires another layer of breaking away other than simple physical distance. It may also mean turning off digital devices. âThat means, when you go on spring break, put away the laptops, and forget carpools, volunteer commitments and cleaning the house... just enjoy time together and deal with âreal life' on your return,â says Williams.Instead, focus on whatâs in front of you. Turn your face to the sun and feel the sand under your feet at the beach. Pause to observe the individual brushstrokes of that painting in the museum. Taste, hear and smell whatâs around you wherever you go.With this purpose in mind, you may choose to absorb the sights and sounds of areas closer to home. Pilditch chose this approach one year for her family when she planned a weeklong âstaycationâ in their city. âWhen we planned it, we were thinking, âWhat things can we do to help us get a better understanding of the city we live in and how we can better appreciate it,ââ says Pilditch.Helping your family take a break from the ordinary and make discoveries about the place where you vacation can be all it takes to make a great spring break. Says Cahill, âI love getting away from the monotony of being at home. Itâs a nice vacation from the daily blahs.âWherever you go and whatever you do, review your goals for spring break. If you keep them simple and focus on family, a relaxed schedule, and unplugging to enjoy your surroundings, youâll find yourself returning from break ready to take on the rest of the school year.
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